Posted by: Dorothy The Organizer | February 11, 2012

Academy Nominated Albert Nobbs: More Than a Well Pressed Suit in His Closet

Glenn Close and Mia Wasikowska in Academy Nominated Albert Nobbs

In this Academy Nominated film about the risks of being true to oneself, Albert Nobbs, Glen Close’s character decides to organize his life around his values: financial security, love and long lasting companionship are his goals.

As the story unfolds, we can’t help but feel compassion and empathy when we learn why Mr. Nobbs has lived his life as a man. Like many of us he has more than a well pressed suit and a bowler hate in his closet: like many of us, he has a few skeletons lurking there and must deal with them if he is to achieve his goals and live a truly fulfilled life.

The climax of the film left me asking myself why, when life is such a high stakes game, do we continue to not live our truth. Why, when if we only gave others the opportunity to understand us, they probably would, do we hide our insecurities, tragedies and fears. Read More…

Posted by: Dorothy The Organizer | February 8, 2012

Birds Do It, Bees Do It, Even Educated Fleas Do It… “Hello Love!”

"Cupid draw back your bow and left your arrows go..." ~ Sam Cooke

On Valentine’s Day the whimsy of a chubby cherub boy flitting about with a bow and a quiver full of magical arrows is a very romantic notion, but when it comes down to the nuts and bolts of it, finding a partner is kind of like the super information highway: Information rules!  And time, contrary to the song, is not on our side.

Consumers rank Match, eHarmony, Chemistry, PerfectMatch and Spark as the Nation’s top 5 Dating Sites.  What do they all have in common… a personality profile questionnaire assessment.  So maybe finding, (and keeping) the perfect love, (and shouting it from the highest hill), might involve just a little organization on our part.

We spend time and energy organizing practically every other aspect of our lives – why not our love life!  Read More…

Dorothy's High School Prom 1980

Thank you all for taking the time to support my “adult prom night” – I mean my upcoming evening at the Grammy’s.  I must say interacting with you about what I might wear, whether I will walk the Red Carpet, deciding which driver is taking me, understanding the proper traffic flow for drop offs, picking up THE tickets…..all of it is reminiscent of my high school prom.

Some of you may remember your own sweet days back in high school – perhaps some of you did not have a chance to enjoy such Cherished Memories. I loved my time in high school and loved the people around me too – classmates, teachers, and townspeople.  I came from a very rural town in Wisconsin and spent most of my time with my best friend, Andrea, and my really tall boyfriend, Steve – creating memories that live with me daily and make me laugh.  I also find I’m incredibly grateful to these dear friends – we grew up together, got in trouble together, and still remain friends.

Because it’s Valentine’s Day soon and I’m all full of gushy loving memories of those around me and those no longer around me, I feel a strong sense to remind you to take note of your sweetheart’s life and stories.  Some of you know that I  interviewed my mom and learned her life story – which is the greatest gift I could give – well, I mean get.  Wait! I really did give her the gift of “Cherished Memories” (which can be found at DorothyTheOrganizer Store) – but the truth is, in spending time with my mom, I was the one who got all the goodies, the understanding, the gift.

Love shows up in many ways and I happen to think that honoring someone’s life and taking time to listen to their sweet stories is one way to really provide the proof that you are interested in them (husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, lover, parent, child) – we all like to feel important.  This Valentine’s Day, I wish to send love and gratitude to my high school sweethearts and friends, Andrea (and her husband Rod) and Steve (and his wife Tara).  Wouldn’t we all have a blast at the Grammy’s this Sunday?

Hugs to you all and Happy Valentine’s Day!

Posted by: Dorothy The Organizer | February 3, 2012

Love, Do You Have a Funny Way of Showing It?

Is the honeymoon over...

Perhaps we are trying to communicate our emotional needs – in a roundabout sort of way – get things done around the house or just “save” our husbands from “forgetting” about something that has fallen off their radar, but we may come off as nagging.

Some would say it takes two to tango. But we don’t often hear of nagging husbands because women, experts say, are more conditioned to feel responsible for the smooth running of home and family life. However, this vicious dance can spiral out of control when a naggee retaliates and the nagger feels the need to repeat themselves, yet again, in order to be heard.

Whatever the reason, nagging is an enemy of love, according to the Journal of Family Psychology, and increases the risk of divorce. And the more organized you are, the less you may be able to stop giving those “gentle reminders,” especially if your partner is a “Last Minute Larry.”

How are your communication skills? Do you need help improving them? Read More…

Posted by: Dorothy The Organizer | January 29, 2012

Carrie Bradshaw – Shoeaholic or Fine Footwear Aficionado?

“Give a girl the right shoes, and she can conquer the world.” ~ Marilyn Monroe

In Sex in the City, when Carrie Bradshaw accepts Mr. Big’s marriage proposal he asks her: “Should we get you a diamond?   “No. No.” she responds.  “Just get me a really big closet!”

What woman doesn’t fantasize about a larger – better organized closet? I had a client call me in a panic once because her husband was threatening to throw out all her shoes!  A little drastic, but I’m sure there are a few husbands out there who can relate to the closet space conundrum. Read More…

Posted by: Dorothy The Organizer | January 24, 2012

Quick De-Cluttering Tips for Your Super Bowl Party

Quick De-cluttering Tips for Parties

Having a Super Bowl Party? It doesn’t matter who you root for, the ads and the half-time show make Super Bowl parties fun!  And the great thing is they are typically casual – just grill up some burgers, make a chilli crock pot, or build your own pizza!  A few chips and dips, and jolly it up with a selection of beers that reflect the names, the mascots, or the hometowns of the competing teams and you’re all set!

If you haven’t already got your invites out – SomeEcards has some great SuperBowl-centric invitations, Evite, or Paperless Post will send personalized invites. Decorations are optional, but most party stores will have banners and such, or you could just go with paper plates and napkins in team colors.

I’m gonna share ten simple tips to help you do a quick, effective cleanup so your home is ready to receive guests and then you’ll be all set! Read More…

Posted by: Dorothy The Organizer | January 19, 2012

DorothyTheOrganizer to Attend the Grammy’s – What would you Like to Know?

DorothyTheOrganizer to See Rhianna, ColdPlay, Paul McCartney

  Yikes, I’m so exicted! I wish I had a backstage pass to see  how Grammy’s are actually organized - but I’ll be quite happy sitting in the audience! Please tell me what you would like to know so I have your questions with me when I head out to the Grammy’s – here is the most recent press release about who I’ll be seeing on February 12th:

GRAMMY Performers Announced

Coldplay and Rihanna, and Paul McCartney added to the lineup for Music’s Biggest Night

January 19, 2012 — 3:53 am

  • GRAMMY.com

    (For a complete list of 54th GRAMMY Awards nominees, click here.)

    Current GRAMMY nominees Coldplay and Rihanna will perform live together for the first time, and nominee and 2012 MusiCares Person of the Year Paul McCartney is set to perform as part of the stellar lineup for the 54th Annual GRAMMY Awards. Additional performers, presenters and special segments will be announced soon.

    Four-time GRAMMY winner Rihanna has four nominations: Album Of The Year and Best Pop Vocal Album for Loud; and two nods in Best Rap/Sung Collaboration for “What’s My Name?” (with Drake), and “All Of The Lights” (with Kanye West, Kid Cudi & Fergie).

    Seven-time GRAMMY-winning group Coldplay is up for three awards: Best Pop Duo/Group Performance for “Paradise,” and Best Rock Performance and Best Rock Song for “Every Teardop Is A Waterfall.”

    Fourteen-time GRAMMY winner and 2012 MusiCares Person of the Year McCartney is nominated for Best Historical Album for Band On The Run (Paul McCartney Archive Collection — Deluxe Edition).

    Previously announced performers for the 54th Annual GRAMMY Awards include current GRAMMY nominees Jason Aldean and Kelly Clarkson, Foo Fighters, Bruno Mars, Nicki Minaj, and Taylor Swift. Aldean and Minaj will perform on the GRAMMY telecast for the first time, while Clarkson, Coldplay, Foo Fighters, Mars, McCartney, Rihanna, and Swift are returning to the GRAMMY stage. Two-time GRAMMY winner LL Cool J, who has hosted “The GRAMMY Nominations Concert Live!! — Countdown To Music’s Biggest Night” since its inception in December 2008, will be hosting the annual GRAMMY Awards telecast for the first time.

    The 54th Annual GRAMMY Awards are produced by John Cossette Productions and AEG Ehrlich Ventures for The Recording Academy. Ken Ehrlich is executive producer, Louis J. Horvitz is director, and David Wild and Ken Ehrlich are the writers.
    Music’s Biggest Night takes place live on Sunday, Feb. 12 at Staples Center in Los Angeles and will be broadcast in high definition and 5.1 surround sound on the CBS Television Network from 8–11:30 p.m. (ET/PT). The show also will be supported on radio worldwide via Dial Global, and covered online at GRAMMY.com and CBS.com, and on YouTube. For GRAMMY coverage, updates and breaking news, please visit The Recording Academy’s social networks on Twitter and Facebook.

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Posted by: Dorothy The Organizer | January 16, 2012

January Procrastination – is it the Weather or What?

January hump day has come and gone…we are over way through the first month of 2012 – yikes!

If you did set yourself goals and resolutions, studies show that you may already be struggling to be true to them.  If you have still not determined what new directions or changes you might make in 2012, you could still be struggling.

Either way, procrastination could be part of your problem, and it’s not until you understand what type of a procrastinator you are that you can do something about it. In the following featured article, I’ll Do It Tomorrow – If I have Time by Barb Friedman, one of the co-authors of 16 Professional Organizers Tell All,  you’ll learn about some of the different types of procrastination.

I’LL DO IT TOMORROW – IF I HAVE TIME!

Does this sound like you or someone you know? How many times do we find ourselves putting off tasks until another (as yet undecided) time? Do you ever hope that some of your “to-do” list would just evaporate with no consequences? Well, the good news is you are not alone. It took me two weeks just to sit down and write this article!

We know that being organized is a learned skill. Read More…

Posted by: Dorothy The Organizer | January 11, 2012

Maroon 5 Joins Dorothy Breininger in Haiti Social Media Event

"DorothyTheOrganizer" Breininger Talks to Media about "Aid Still Required" in Haiti

All-Star Lineup Launches ‘HAITI: Aid Still Required’ Campaign

Normally everyone forgets about tragedies a few weeks or months after they happen.  Not so with this group.

Despite it being two full years since the 7.0 magnitude earthquake leveled the capital city of Port-au-Prince, more than 40 high profile personalities will use their Twitter and Facebook accounts this Thursday, the 12th, to rekindle interest in helping Haiti.

The lineup, which includes Maroon 5, Sting, Lady Antebellum, Hugh Jackman, Sheryl Crow, Tim McGraw, Martha Stewart, Bonnie Raitt, Jackson Browne, Don Cheadle, Deepak Chopra and NBA stars Paul Pierce, Blake Griffin, Kevin Durant and Chris Paul, has a combined total of 125 million social media followers.

“Before the earthquake, Haiti was already the poorest nation in the Western Hemisphere,” explains Hunter Payne, producer of the campaign and President of Aid Still Required.  “The last thing it needed was a disaster.”

The earthquake exacerbated ever-worsening conditions on the island.  The number of orphaned and abandoned children has doubled since the quake, the incidence of rape has increased markedly, and Haiti’s floundering education system took a severe hit when schools toppled.

“On our trip there this past summer it was difficult to see much progress,” says Andrea Herz Payne, Chairman and co-founder of Aid Still Required.  “At the same time we saw how eager the Haitian people are to improve their situation.  There was no way we could come home and forget about them.”

Haiti was once a lush, thriving paradise.  A few hundred years ago it provided France with about a third of its domestic product.  But after gaining independence from France in 1804, the populace turned to subsistence farming, deforesting the countryside in the process. Today 98% of Haiti is barren, and the resultant flight to the cities has left urban areas impossibly overcrowded.

When the earthquake hit Port-Au-Prince, it destroyed hospitals, air, sea and land transport facilities, and communication systems, and left over a million survivors homeless and hundreds of thousands starving and without proper sanitation or clean drinking water. Today, the people of Haiti continue to live in a state of emergency.

“The usual pattern is for the public to contribute generously in the moment of a disaster and then forget about it,” says Hunter.  “But disasters don’t heal themselves – they take time, energy and resources over a protracted arc.  We hope this campaign will go a long way to engendering this kind of thinking not only about this tragedy but all others as well.”

Proceeds from the campaign are funding reforestation projects, infrastructure and teachers for orphanages, and trauma relief programs for PTSD and rape victims.

Donations – http://aidstillrequired.org/donate

Campaign Sponsor – Snoball – ‘Empowering change through social giving.’ https://snoball.com/

Contact info@AidStillRequired.org for more information.

Posted by: Dorothy The Organizer | January 11, 2012

Help – I need a Professional Organizer!

Someone just asked me a very good question on Twitter.  “How do I know when I should call a Professional Organizer?”

Most of us have looked around our homes or office at some time and shuddered – feeling overwhelmed and unable to get a handle on the clutter or stacks of paper.  But when do you know you need to call in some professional help?  Get some fresh organization ideas?

My first answer is: “Anytime is a great time to find a way to make your life easier!” How much happier could you be with a more organized home? Read More…

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